Holiday Traditions

Riding the Riverside Trolley was a holiday tradition I miss very much!

December is a magical month to me, and not just because I was born on Christmas Day and I get to celebrate another turn around the sun. The weather cools down (well, some days it does). The kids are out of school and work slows down enough that I get to spend more quality time with my friends and family. Also, it just feels like there is a general spirit of happiness, kindness and giving amongst everyone I encounter. Wouldn’t it be lovely if all months were as warm in spirit as December?

I am also a sucker for history and traditions. I feel traditions deep in my bones. They give me a sense of comfort and belonging. Each person has their own holiday traditions. Some originate from warm childhood memories that you desperately try to recreate. Others are new traditions you start with close friends who become like family over time. Some are even solitary rituals. In fact, one of my newest traditions is to wake up early on Christmas morning and take my dog for a walk on a secluded beach.

I find that solitary time is important if you want a balance to all of the social events in December. I feed on those social moments, especially after being isolated the last couple of years. Some of my favorite events are annual parties like Latke Party (my friend’s potato pancakes are the best), The Red Party (a Springfield tradition with great people, red lights and an alligator, rabbit and pig roast, and Friendmas (a heartwarming girl friend holiday hang time). I also really enjoy public events with the kiddos, like Christmas in Avondale, Luminaria, and Holiday Pop Up Events. Strolling through Memorial Park at dusk, admiring the lanterns lining the circular walk that leads up to the “Life” statue, that was one of the most soul filling moments this year. As a family, we also love attending holiday movie events, out in the parks, and at Sunray Cinema. On Christmas Eve, Sunray has a showing of It’s a Wonderful Life, which is a family favorite. When George Bailey realizes his worth and the importance of family and friends, then reaches into his pocket to find Zuzu’s petals, oh the tears that flow!

At home, the first of my favorite traditions is picking out a fresh cut tree, strapping it onto the top of my car and driving it home to be set up and decorated. We’ve collected ornaments from all over the country during our summer travels. It is so much fun unwrapping them and reminiscing about our many adventures, like the breathtaking hike up Mount Rainier, the majestic whales we spotted off the coast of Iceland, and that time the kids counted every step on the way up the Statue of Liberty. We share stories about the visits to Presidential historic sites and awe-inspiring national parks, as well as silly moments like seeing the leg lamp on our visit to A Christmas Story house. We also share stories of family and those we’ve lost. I love thinking of my grandma each time I unwrap and hang up the “Merry Texas Christmas” ornament she made, or remembering my sweet Buttercup kitty when I add her tiny paw prints to the tree.

Another favorite tradition in our household is the annual sugar cookie decorating extravaganza. Really this is just me baking a ton of sugar cookies in various shapes and having all the colors of icing and sprinkles and candy for decorating available. Family and friends come by and we sit around the table and decorate. There are always so many cookies left over. As more people stop by through the holiday season, I invite them to decorate some cookies too. So many of my friends are artists or creatives that most of the time these cookies are too fun and interesting that you just don’t want to destroy them. My daughter always makes an adorable Patrick Star cookie. Even though this isn’t a big event, it is one of my favorite because it is a simple and fun way to bring people I love together.

My final holiday tradition is celebrating my birthday on December 25th, which usually involves a hibachi restaurant (pretty much all that is open). It reminds me of when the dogs ruin the dinner in A Christmas Story movie and the family is forced to go out to eat at the Chop Suey Inn. Yet, my experience is always wonderful. Marveling at the flaming onion volcano surrounded by friends and sake at the hibachi table is one of the most fun holiday traditions.

If you have a holiday tradition you love, share it on my blog page. I truly hope that you enjoy this holiday season celebrating whatever traditions you hold most dear!

Date Night with Axes

Carmen Godwin, David Nackashi, Claire Nackashi, Daniel Ciccarello, River Godwin at Stumpy's Hatchet House, Springfield, Jacksonville, Florida

Ok, so it was a date night with my son, to be fair. I’ve always been a bit terrified of axes. I mean, think about all the famous axe-wielding people, historic or fiction. There is Lizzie Borden who killed her father and step-mother with an axe (allegedly). Jack Torrance chased his family around the Overlook Hotel with an axe in The Shining (ask me sometime about my stay in that historic hotel - let’s just say I didn’t sleep well). Then there was Carrie Nation who decided the best way to move the temperance movement forward was to take a hatchet to the bar of various saloons serving booze. Oh, Carrie, how misguided were you?

Axe throwing is a perfectly good date night. It could also be a fun group outing with your crew. My night at Stumpy’s Hatchet House in Springfield’s Historic District was with a crew that included three of my friends, me and my son, and a new friend we met that night who joined our group. Apparently, my new friend has an alter-ego named Carmen — I feel we were destined to meet! Fast new friends are always aplenty in Springfield and they are the best!

Carmen Godwin, bullseye, Stumpy's Hatchet House, Jacksonville, Florida

Stumpy’s is located at 1719 North Main Street, between Reddi Arts and The Block Skate Supply in the heart of Springfield. They opened in May 2022 and are owned by a lovely couple who reside in Ortega and support all things local to Jacksonville. When we arrived, the rest of our party wasn’t there yet so we hung out in the waiting area. They have a bar with stools and an area near the window with a comfy couch. At the bar and snack counter, I ordered a beer for me and a soda for my son. While waiting, I bumped into the Executive Director of Springfield Preservation & Revitalization (SPAR), and chatted things up with her for a bit about all of the wonderful things happening in Springfield. Kelly is always prepared to greet you with a smile and give you a minute of her time, no matter how busy she is — and she is always busy — trust me I used to run Riverside Avondale Preservation so I know what a huge job that she has on her shoulders. Next time you see her, make sure to thank her for all that she does!

Once our friends arrived, we were given wristbands and walked to an area to sign waivers — of course you have to sign a waiver — you are throwing an axe that spins through the air to hopefully slam and embed into the wall, hopefully! After we signed our lives away, the friendly and enthusiastic staff went over all of the axe throwing rules, which are also displayed on a large wall board for reference. It is basically all of the things you need to know to keep you safe during your adventure. Mainly, you have to watch your surroundings, don’t hand the axe off to someone else, two people throw at the same time and don’t retrieve your axe until the other person has finished their throw. No problem! Easy peasy!

Except, all those rules evaporate once you start throwing and that rush of adrenaline surfaces the resting DNA of your axe-wielding Viking ancestors and makes you think you are a badass warrior woman fighting for your life on the field of battle. Actually, I don’t know that I have Viking ancestors but I do know I had some warriors in my family tree. I bet we all do somewhere along the line. This place will let your ancestor-warrior persona fly.

When I first started throwing, I thought I’d never figure out how to get the axe to land on the board. Everyone in my party was hitting the board at least occasionally, if not regularly, except me. Then, after a while, I stopped thinking about how I was throwing or standing and I just focused really hard on that circle in the middle of the board, and then it clicked. I hit a bullseye, then another, then another. Yes, I do apparently have innate axe throwing skilzzz! I just had to dig deep, stop overthinking it, and let my instincts do the work. It was so much fun!

As you can see from this video, my son apparently inherited those ancestor warrior genes too! BULLSEYE! We were built to throw axes, apparently — Get it River!

In each area, there is a list of games you can play with the axe throwing, which kind of reminded me of darts and all the different games you can make out of hitting the board in different places and orders. The games would keep it rotating quickly between players. Our group would just throw multiple times until we were exhausted, then trade. Wonder what four people do while two people are throwing? At Stumpy’s there is so much more! You can snack and drink in the gathering areas between the rooms, which are outfitted with hightop tables, chairs, and comfy couches. Or you can play one of the many other games that are all about the place. There is a shuffleboard table, a giant jenga, a large connect four, and several other game tables spread around the place to keep you occupied.

I would certainly visit this place again. Here are the deets: Stumpy’s has a Hatchet Happy Hour every Wednesday, Thursday and Friday from 4-6 pm, where admission is just $20 per person for an hour of playtime. Reservations are highly recommended. Regular price admission is $25 per person for an hour of gaming and hours are Wednesday-Thursday 4-10pm, Friday 4-11pm, Saturday 2-11pm and Sunday 2-8pm.

I am really looking forward to doing this again with a group of friends. I am thinking … women warrior girls night! I call Boudica, the warrior Queen of Iceni!

Springfield Tour of Homes 2022

Home Tours are my jam for so many reasons.

I love the character of historic homes built in a time when creativity was key and building products and techniques were focused on craftsmanship. I love the little special details like a milk door, a carved surround on a fireplace, or stained glass house numbers on a window above a door. I love the evident care put into these homes by their owners who safeguard historic elements while also modernizing the home with their own personal style. Plus, at heart, I am a Looky-Lou. Some of you relate to that, I know you do! I was a Looky-Lou before I heard the term for the first time on Portlandia. Curiosity abounds and drives me towards the unknown of a historic home tour. I can not resist!

The 43rd Annual Springfield Tour of Homes is this weekend, May 14-15 from 12-5pm. This year will feature six beautiful historic homes and two lovely gardens. I have searched everywhere to find out where the houses and gardens are located but I guess they are keeping it a secret until the day of the tour. That is fun too, I suppose.

We do know one historic location! On Saturday, you can tour Bethel Baptist Institutional Church (215 Bethel Baptist Street) as they will be hosting an Open House that one day of the tour. Bethel Baptist is the oldest Baptist congregation in the state of Florida, founded in 1838. The building on tour was constructed after the Great Fire of 1901 destroyed the former structure and most of Downtown Jacksonville. It really is a special treat to be able to visit this historic African American church, not only because of the beauty of its architecture and construction, but mostly because it is filled with so much of our city’s rich history and culture.

Bethel Baptist Institutional Church, Jacksonville, Florida,  historic photo

Reserve early bird tickets for $15 online before the tour at Springfieldtour.com. Or pay $20 on the day of the event. Either way, you have to pick up your tickets and the tour map at the SPAR Headquarters (1321 North Main St).


SPAR members get an extra discount. Not a member? Learn more about SPAR Council. Springfield Preservation and Revitalization (SPAR) is “the non-profit neighborhood membership organization that aims to enhance and preserve the historic Springfield neighborhood.” Supporting local historic preservation groups is an important part of living in or playing in a historic district. These organizations protect and promote their neighborhoods, which increases home and business value, boosts tourism, and helps make them the best places to live and play in Northeast Florida.

Bicycles parked under a tree Jacksonville, Florida

My favorite way to experience any home tour is by bike! It really is the best way to see the full beauty of a neighborhood. Ideally you could walk the tour but most tour stops are too far away to leisurely walk the whole tour in a day. Just imagine bicycling down historic streets, shaded by old live oak trees, the wind blowing through your hair, catching the scent of jasmine vines. You can even strap on a small cooler with lunch and drinks and have a short picnic in one of the local parks. If you want to join a bike group, SPAR is offering a special bike tour on May 14 from 1-4pm. Hosted by the wonderful Leigh Burdett of e2ride bike tours, visitors will be guided along a special route that includes not only the homes on the Tour but also highlights other interesting historical locations in the neighborhood. Leigh is a great storyteller - you won’t regret going on a tour with her.

Can’t wait to see you and my other Looks-Lou friends soon!

Biking Riverside

I would be remiss if I didn’t redirect to my first blog, Engines Off. Back when I was working a demanding job as the Executive Director of Riverside Avondale Preservation, spending countless hours at City Hall, carting two kids to school, tennis lessons, and all their other extracurricular activities, I had the brilliant idea to to create an experiment. Could I give up my car and for a full year and just ride a bike everywhere? Would that even be possible in Jacksonville?

The answer is YES! I did it and I have the emotional scars to prove it. Actually, it was a great year, full of surprises. I learned new things about myself and my kids, I enjoyed hitching rides with friends on rainy days, and I learned to stop and smell the roses, literally. The summers were tough because of the heat and the challenge of traveling between meetings without walking into one soaked in sweat (always carry a towel and a change of clothes). However, it was nice to bring everything closer to home and to simplify my life and that of the children. We walked to school every morning, created a greater connection between us, and we all experienced our neighborhood through a different lens. Want to know more about my journey? Check out Engines Off to learn more!